Everyone has there own version

Everyone has there own version of hot or attractive or whatever. Someone can be very cute and attractive but not be hot, depending on how you look at it.

I think Matthew McConaughey is a true hottie. Does that mean that anyone I date has to look like him? NO. In fact he is not even my true type. One of my favorite book series is all about a female bounty hunter torn between two guys. She has an on again off again thing with one of them. He is cute and they share and attraction. The other one is her ideal hottie. They have the attraction to, but everyone knows it would never work. So which is better the guy who is cute that you are attracted to who could be the one, or the ulitmate hottie that would never work? I vote for the cute guy with potential every time.

What really makes a person attractive to me is their personality and the outer package. I like tall men with dark (not blonde) hair. I like eyes that smile and "talk" on their own. I like someone I can talk to and relate to. Intelligence matters. So can I be attractive to someone I don't find a hottie, YES. I don't think I am a hottie either, but I do think I am pretty. I have a nice smile, great eyes, and a wonderful personality. Who wouldn't want me (LOL). Seriously I have a lot to offer even if I am not a super model.

Anyway all of that is to say, I hurt someone's feelings by saying they weren't a hottie. I feel so bad about it. He is a truly nice guy. We had tons in common. But I blew it. Again. At least God gave me a sign that I am not meant to be alone. Now if he could just talk for me....Maybe I need an Aaron to my Moses or a Cyrano for my Christian. Maybe I should just shut up completely. But that wouldn't be me.

I guess it is back to waiting paitently for the right person to fall from the sky. I am just sorry that I blew it with a genuinely nice guy. May God Bless Stefan with a true love match, and some where along the way, me too.